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A New Chapter

I'm starting a new chapter in my life.  One that I am writing from the heart.  I've spent a long time doing what was expected of me and shoving down my true feelings so that I wouldn't hurt anyone else.  I've played roles and been "Martha". I've been a perfectionist and an overachiever. I've thought that I could change both me and the people around me.  I've learned that I'm lovable and wonderful just the way I am.  I've learned that people can love me regardless of my imperfections or maybe even because of them.  I've learned that it's okay to tell the truth about how I feel and who I am. I've learned that other people are responsible for their own feelings and lives, not me.  I'm learning how to let go of being co-dependent. So here it is... Aaron and I are getting divorced.  We don't hate eachother and we don't wish ill for the other.  We are going to remain friends and continue to parent Coleman together.  It...